Couples Coaching &
Transformative Journeys

Like ripples, relationships shape our lives, touching every corner with their ever-expanding impact.
And like water, our unconscious dynamics are vast, going far deeper than the surface symptoms we immediately experience.

Hi, I am Tiffany Wheeler, a qualified guide to support you in understanding the tricky terrain of your default relationship patterns and how to find more clarity in all your relating...

Often taking an unconventional approach distinct from traditional psychotherapy, I work with clients directly, aiming to reach the source of the presenting problematic pattern in order to find the simplest solutions for greatest understanding and effect.

As someone with a passion for working with internal family systems and inner parts work, and as someone with high-functioning autism (Asbergers), I have a distinct strength in being able to quickly identify patterns and dynamics at play in a relationship, to reflect these back and provide insight to my clients for best approaches to learn, shift or grow for deeper intimacy and integration in their lives.

I approach my work with clients with an educational framework, supporting them with recommended resources to empower them to be in control of their healing and growth. I do not work with clients who are interested in passive long term therapy, nor people who expect all the change to happen overnight simply because they have paid for a couple of sessions with an “expert”. I require my clients to take responsibility for the dynamics at play in their lives, by providing insight and awareness for them to begin the journey of making relevant changes.

Services Offered

Couples Coaching

Pre/Post Divorce Coaching

Recovering from Infidelity

Systemic Constellations

Parenting support with Autism/ADHD

Personal Discovery Courses

Some words from previous clients

“Tiffany’s approach is conscious and holistic, she helped us get very quickly to the root of some deep seated issues that were challenging our relationship. She also equipped us with tools to be able communicate and handle our own emotions more maturely and securely. Her input was sensitive, balanced, accepting and very insightful every time. Nearly every session saw us uncovering something major and taking a big step forward. Thank you for being there when we needed you.”

“Tiffany is truly a person who you can relate to on a personal level. I felt very comfortable being myself & more especially being able to express myself without holding back. She helped me find a lot of myself. I would truly commend her for her professionalism.”

“Tiffany is such an amazing soul. I found Tiffany on google I actually googled & came across 3 practices. Tiffany was the one practice that responded efficiently. Spending time with her has been an empowering journey for me. I am still with her and I am extremely satisfied with her service..”

“After the sudden death of my sister, I was caught in a loop of grief. Even though I have a well-equipped toolbox of my own, I wasn’t able to let go, to live and laugh again. With her broad knowledge and compassion, Tiffany could guide me through a separation process I couldn’t complete on my own. I felt the difference immediately, and since then my emotional life continues to improve! One session with a transforming outcome! Thank you Tiffany"

“Thank you for your generous offering of self, for your openness, for your very accessible availability. Encountering my husband’s higher self has opened my heart to him on a deep level and being able to express my rage and let that go so that I can move from this place of stuckness was invaluable. But letting go my grief… that has been truly liberating. I have been trying to get to that place for 3 years and I am so grateful to you for taking me to the heart of it.”

“After reading Tiffany’s profile I was drawn to work with her as her no-nonsense approach appealed to me and that is what I am normally drawn to when working with a therapist. Tiffany showed me a different side of working with all the tools she has in her bag of tricks. Through these different techniques, I was able to move a lot of baggage and have some “aha” moments as to why certain things have played out in my life. It was a lovely experience and very emotional at times. Working with Tiffany I always felt held and secure in our sessions. I would recommend her work to others without hesitation.”

“I hired Tiffany because my family imploded and I needed assistance in how to navigate the mess. The process Tiffany did, showed me how it all comes back to me, my reactions, and how I can move differently. And cleverly, she uncovered some real deep issues at play I had not mentioned to her and the work ended up going down this different pathway. Tiffany offered several contemplative exercises that were particularly helpful in getting into the subconscious that was running my show. She has a wonderful breadth of experience and tools to draw from and some especially nice different ways of peering into things. One exercise included reviewing projections I have made and then looking into them a little more deeply to see where they might be something I could cultivate within myself. She also offered an unique way of looking into making choices that calls upon viewing decisions from both a “masculine” and “feminine” perspective. After working with her, I have a clearer understanding of how to look at projections and be more conscious about them.”

“A huge thank you for the Family Constellation session today. Tiffany, you are insightful, skilled and intuitive. I processed some things on spot, and can feel other old burdens gently unraveling in the background as well. Here’s to karma changers and chain breakers!”

“Tiffany posed some questions after looking at some family patterns that has had me contemplating all week. I am changed as a result of the session and in healing ways. Thank you, Tiffany, for your time, attention, and incredible insight.”

"I became intrigued with your wealth of knowledge and experience in the field of facilitation, leadership and personal mastery.... Thank you for helping me integrate the various aspects of my sub-conscious, conscious and deep masculine and feminine and helping me see the years of patterning. I was able to have compassion for and help heal Wendy the girl child and teenager and the lost young woman I once was. Thank you for your commitment to this work, to the business, to deep learning and understanding. Thank you for being up for the challenge, for facing your fears and doing it anyway. Thank you for your drive and efficiency. Thank you for your light and laughter. You are a vast woman with a gift to lift others to greater levels of spiritual understanding!"

“I had such a gorgeous family constellations session with Tiffany and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. She brought such compassion and also such strength and clarity to help me understand some family dynamics that had been causing stress and strain for months. Total game changer. I highly recommend her work. Thank you so much Tiffany. This has created a huge shift that I am so relieved by.”

“During the family constellation session I had with Tiffany, I was offered some powerful and much needed insights about my family lineage that I had not realized! I feel very grateful for being offered these puzzle pieces that I have not even realized I was missing! Thank you Tiffany for your careful and clear wisdom! You work like a spider humbly and diligently weaving the web of understanding! I highly suggest working with her to help reconcile any ancestral baggage!”

“Thank you Tiffany for a powerful Family Constellation session. She guided me through a beautiful process with my lineage that left me in tears. I’ve forged a deeper connection with my maternal grandmother in spirit, and lovingly severed a bond that was holding me back from creating life on my terms. Family Constellations is powerful magic, I can feel an unfurling within me and a deeper openness to new possibilities."

“I started to see Tiffany because I was feeling very stuck in my life after experiencing a major life crisis. Within a very short time I went through a divorce, lost my house and experienced a Kundalini Awakening. I have tried so many different healers, many were helpful to a degree but I never felt as though the person was connecting with me. Tiffany very quickly was able to reflect everything I was experiencing so succinctly, I immediately felt for the first time I wasn’t alone in all that I was dealing with. I appreciated her insights and wisdom as she broke everything down for me so I could open myself up to aspects of myself I had been denying all my life. For the first time, I deeply feel that I am changing unwanted patterns in my life, seeing things differently as I am growing into my womanhood in a whole new way. What a gift every session is with Tiffany; amazing insights, a few laughs (and tears) and always magical!!”

“Tiffany is masterful at revealing your blind-spot! If you are genuinely and sincerely interested in solutions to the challenges that you are experiencing in your relationship(s) then working with Tiffany will be hugely beneficial in enabling you to start taking responsibility for all of your experience. Tiffany has a uniquely efficient way of assisting you to arrive, with discernment and clarity, at what it is that you really, really want! From this empowered place of becoming the subject of your own desire, she will guide you to make choices that serve you well, so that you can create the conscious, loving, intimate relationship(s) that you long for…” “The clarity that you bring in conflict in relationships that have become entangled and enmeshed is so practical and useful…. And wise too”

“Thank you so much for your recent relationship coaching. I faced a difficult situation with my adult daughter, who was visiting from the US. What I got from you was both context and insight. You helped me reflect on a difficult situation, where I had made some errors of judgment, without judging me. Your helping me arrive at my own best solution had all the hallmarks of the kind of relationship coach I have always wanted. I am happy to let you know that all is well between my daughter and myself. Thank you for your wisdom, your compassion and your practical advice. Never judging, never disrespecting, always supporting, Tiffany engages deep enquiry which allowed me to discover widening aspects of myself.”

"Thank you so much for your beautiful presence and for holding the space for me to unfold. I am deeply grateful."

"Thank you for all the attention, love, thoughtfulness and guidance you gave the group. Your light is so bright and we were blessed to have you as a guide."

"While you hold the strength and the no-bullshit, I also clearly see your stillness and gentleness. I love how you so easily and naturally hold the paradox of this work within you."

"Your fine, profound understanding of groups and constellations. The powerful psychological framework and your incredible gift to listen to the truth under the story. It was an honour to learn from you."

"Thank you for sharing your light on your radiance and on your shadow. Thank you for making it safe for me to do the same. Thank you for showing me the path to true intimacy and for inviting me to drop more fully into alignment. Thank you for your vulnerability and your laughter. Thank you for your example and courage to be seen and to fall apart. Thank you for being the space in which I could tumble down the rabbit hole and find my way Home."

Couples Coaching & Transformative Journeys

Like ripples, relationships shape our lives, touching every corner with their ever-expanding impact. And like water, our unconscious dynamics are vast, going far deeper than the surface symptoms we immediately experience.